They never would have met had she told the truth up front.2) My 71-year-old female client who is on a crew team but has never confessed her age, because she doesn’t want to feel “different” than everyone else.
She likes fitting in and sees no need to call attention to her age.3) Just yesterday, my 44-year-old client, who, upon hearing about my upcoming CBS appearance, started to rail against guys who lie about their age. So while I would never go and call myself an “advocate” of lying, I would say that we should reserve judgment.
So the solution is to cover up, not go outside after dark and basically succumb to the fact that men have such a skewed idea of women they think a woman who is aware of her physical attributes or one who wants a bit of independence is by definition cheap and easy.
And although you describe yourself as a fourth date girl, every guy knows one thing: Rules are meant to be broken. She says she never dates short guys, but ends up with a dude who’s 5’6”. Listen, I don’t know any guy who isn’t tantalized by a hint of cleavage and the suggestion that there might be some risqué costumes in your closet. Just sit on the other side of the table, don’t have too much to drink, and make it clear that you’re interested with your words, not your body.
But if you find this is consistently putting you in an uncomfortable position, who’s job is it to change tactics? You said “I’m not saying you’re asking for it” and then went on to basically saying she’s asking for it and telling her how she can stop asking for it.
What is a good way to get a guy to back off on the physical stuff when you first start dating?
I dress very sexy and have a nice figure, am attractive and feel like guys are always all over me right away to get physical.
Called her the next day, where she confessed that she wasn’t 54 herself.
When asked how old she was, she said “Let’s just say I’m in my sixties”.Assuming a guy is just putting his arm around you (as opposed to physically assaulting you), this is all pretty normal behavior. Because for every woman who says she never goes home with a guy on the first date, there’s another one who’s waking up next to him the next morning.And the reason for it is not simply that men are obsessed with sex (which is true), but rather that they’re tantalized by the possibility that they can get it right away. He tells you he’s never getting hitched, but he marries the next woman he dates. If you want to keep better control of your date’s behavior, you need to be a bit more conscientious about how you’re coming across. You can look sexy without looking slutty, and you can talk about sex without seeming to come onto them.Also, if I say things like that I dressed as a dominatrix for Halloween and that I sleep naked, is that considered teasing or flirting? Maybe I mislead guys by talking about these things and that is why they are all over me.Oh, and please don’t tell me to start wearing turtlenecks and khaki pants when I go out because that is not going to happen ;)! Dear Natalie, Let’s see if we can agree on one thing first: If Britney Spears hates the paparazzi, you certainly can’t blame her.And, since not getting enough emails or not having enough men to date has never been a problem, are there any advantages to knocking my age down 5 years, since everyone thinks I look 32 anyways? I’m open to it if I saw advantages, but I guess I feel by keeping my age as much to the truth as possible, I’m weeding out ones who could be a potential problem anyways.