She is in this weird state of denial and I don't know what to say to assist her. she had a night mare that he killed her and she asked him about it.he sent her a sad face (they were on skype video) and then said I had a dream he started staring at her and says " i had a dream too where we were cutting each other while making love." he just sat there looking at her. Would you like to do something like that sometime...I've only ever met one guy who ever had the metal aspect down.
she told me when he said that it scared her but now shes minimizing it saying everyone has fetishes.
But he sold her a dream when they met and told her that he would show her the world and showered her with love .
(WTF) He then went on to tell her he wanted to choke her while they made love urinate on her and also said he wanted to have sex in a cemetery!!!!!!!!
She doesn't like any of that stuff at all - AND WHY DID HER MENTIONING A DREAM OF BIENG MURDERED BY HIM BRING HIM TO SEX!!!???
Her last relationship of 5 years her boyfriend was unemotional and cold and to her he never showed enough love and it devastated her.
This guy comes along seems normal hes in the army family has money she met his parents they like her ( her parents died and her ex didn't have any for the same reason)he has a trip to paris planned when he comes back and she knows he lies cheats and has a sexual appetite that is disconcerting at best.I have a friend who met a new guy after a break up he seems like an all american just finished a tour in the army and is coming home to see family seems like a dream come true for her.hes done a few jealous things like contact and threaten guys on her facebook and shes caught him talking to a girl he liked after lying for days. What’s the point of being with a sadist if they can’t trigger some forgotten nightmare from your past? An accomplished sadist won’t reveal their true colors right away-at first they will sweep you off your feet and shower you with “love,” they may even cry! That way when friends and family start warning you that you’ve picked a bad egg, you can put it down to them not being “edgy” enough. Insecurity is cat nip to the sadist-it’s a real chore trying to torture someone with high self-esteem, for some reason they just won’t put up with it. He cried and told her he loved her and wouldn't do it again. when she asked to see his inbox he outright refused and said he would go over it with her when he came back. They started dating three months ago at week 2 he told her he was in love with her and has been talking bout coming home and marrying her getting a home and having kids.