I know this soundslike common sense, but trust me,everything changed for me the day Irealized I didn't need to read or study onemore book, or listen to or watch one moreseminar.
Mistake #2: Worrying Too Much About What A Woman Is Thinking Of Them Guys it's such an enormous mistake tofall into the trap of getting caught up inyour own head. Here's a veryironic discovery that I made a coupleyears ago: I get more bad reactions fromwomen when, in my head, I'm thinkingtoo long about what I should say before Isay it.
This is very important so I wantyou to maul this over for a minute.
All you have to do is look at someone like Halle Berry who has had her fair share of romantic mishaps. Rather, a man is simply attracted to a woman because he is, and the surprising aspect of this is that he often becomes attracted to the woman who becomes vulnerable with him.
It’s the woman who strips away her defenses and her pretenses and drops her guard. You don’t have to play hard to get or be afraid you’ll look to eager.
So, the next time you’re out with a man, see what happens when you throw out any pretenses, focus on the present, and just enjoy getting to know the man in front of you. You’ll discover a whole new way of relating to men that will make you feel better about yourself while you find the relationship of your dreams.
__________________ There are specific things you can do to raise your self-esteem that will make you irresistible to a man. You'renever going to know everything before youeven start.Practicing what you'relearning by going out and applying it atthe same time, supplements what youlearn and helps you understand it allbetter.The moreyou do this, the easier it will become overtime.Before you know it, you'll startfinding yourself in the type of situationsyou now feel you're lacking.Feel the silverware in your hand, the bite of food in your mouth, what it feels like to look at him and talk with him.